Lessons from the Sacrament
Though I didn’t know the pain I’d walk through by walking down that aisle fourteen years ago, I would do it again. I realize now how little I knew of love - and how little I knew Jesus - that day fourteen years ago. To know and love Dan; to know and love Jesus Christ; to know and love His Church; to know and love Nigel; it wouldn’t be possible without experiencing the graces of the Sacrament of Marriage…only made possible by our yes to this wild journey fourteen years ago today.
The House that Built Me
My community school closes today. The gift of a small school is its ability to instill a sense of mattering, responsibility, and belonging - to both a place and a people.
Encountering Generosity
Fresh eyes on an old familiar: The Prodigal Son. It’s a tale of encountering generosity - both of taking advantage of it and failing to recognize it - and, yet, the generosity remained - never being regretted or revoked.
Two encounters with generous love: one receives and one rejects. How do you respond to the Father’s illogical generosity to you?
On loving and being loved
Does God love us because we are good - or are we good because God loves us? Are God’s commands good because only because they come from him - or are they good because they are for our good because God is good? Maybe that seems too nuanced - or even circular - but read on; it’s not. It actually matters quite a bit! Written at the beginning of February and covering my meditations on being loved…now seems as good as any to share!
Lessons learned at my Grandma's table
That house was a perfect house, whether you like food or sleep or story-telling or singing or just sitting and thinking best, or a perfect mixture of them all. Merely to be there was a cure for weariness, fear, and sadness.
~JRR Tolkien
If you want to change the world, go home and love your family.
~St. Theresa of Calcutta
Spirit of Ruth
Today, I received an award that is deeply personal to me: the Spirit of Ruth award from Sigma Alpha. As I reflected on her life and my story, I realized that there were some fundamental virtues Ruth must have cultivated in her “first act” to allow her to be the woman of worth, she is recognized for in her second act. Identifying these core virtues as faith, hope and love, I share their importance for a young person’s first act.
Returning to Campus
As we prepare for returning to campus, I want to share thoughts from my own journey of grief and returning.
A Woman's Work
The Gospel this week gives me a picture of returning from a long day at the office only to be greeted with more work to do. …and this work is either going to drain you or replenish you - and it all hangs on these questions: Who are you working for? In whose strength do you serve? From what reservoir are you giving / pouring out?
A string of beads....
Today marks 5 years of when I “really became a Catholic” - the day I allowed Mary to lead me to Jesus. I am realizing now that until we allow his mother to lead us to her son - we are missing him. There’s an aspect to surrendering, a vulnerability and humility of heart that Mary innately possesses. We take on that same posture when we pray the Rosary, and we experience Jesus differently. As the one who carried him introduces us to him, we experience a greater fullness of Jesus’ reality.
You’ll live
“Ah, you’ll live”…it’s like our family’s mantra to get up and keep going — to keep pushing…to never give up hope. They can have that attitude because they’ve lived it. We’ve lived it.
Marking the Milestone: A letter to the Senior Class of 2020
Of all the schools I’ve worked with, the SpartANS spirit has shaped me the most. The idea of duty, sacrifice and honor of the warriors of Sparta resonated strongly with me in Fall 2016. Those themes of responsibility and connectedness kept me showing up for you in that first year. Witnessing your joy, enthusiasm for learning, commitment to growing - trust of my wisdom - brought me back to life. During the following years, I rediscovered me, tapping deeper into my calling and abilities. Thank you for showing up every day. Thank you for trusting my guidance. Thank you for doing the little things I asked of you; I hope you will recognize them as big things, someday.
Terms of Condition: Relationships (part 2)
I get that there are people in the world who think it is better to just accept God … or to believe that closeness to God is a yes/no, in or out, static not dynamic state of existence.
I just don’t think that’s how God operates. God wants to relate to us – with us – for us – through us.
Terms of Condition: Question, Ask, Seek (part 1)
All these thousands of years later, one of the proofs WE use to support believing in these stories of Jesus of Nazareth as Son of God is that ALL his early supporters WENT and also DIED for the message.
Their willingness to die for the Resurrection is one of the proofs we use for it being a reliable fact.
So, I will not fault Thomas for wanting to be certain.